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Give Him a Blow Job that will Blow His Mind
Many men have been appauled when hearing about a botched blow job where a confused woman actually blows on a penis, like blowing up a balloon. Why, we fair maidens ask, is it called a blow job, when the woman is not doing any blowing? Why isn’t it called a suck job? A wise friend informed me that “blow” comes from the male side, that he “blows” his wad, and it “blows” his mind. Equipped with these tips, and a bit of practice on a willing partner, you will be on your way to giving a mind blowing blow job!
Before we start
The general consensus among most women is that a blow job, however much it pleases your man, is not the most favorite of tasks. And, even if you do enjoy giving one, the quicker it goes, the happier both parties seem to be. So, here are some tips for you ladies (ahem, or gentlemen), to help speed up the fun.
Foreplay
Drag out the foreplay. Lots of kissing. Everywhere. Mouth, ears, nipples, down the stomach, inner thighs. Play the “Guess what letter I’m spelling” game with your tongue on his back. Anything to get him worked up and turned on.
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Featured Move
Rub-a-Dub-Dub
Take a hot and steamy bath or shower to get nice and clean everywhere, and ready for action.
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Positions
Word has it, lying him down his back is the standard position for giving head. However, it also is the position that seems to take the longest for orgasm. Try some other positions for quicker cumming. For example, have him sit on a chair or at the edge of the bed, or while standing up, with your hands on his ass. The main thing to keep in mind about positions is to maintain his penis in a natural, upwardly slanted state. The more awkwardly contorted the penis is, the longer it may take to reach orgasm.
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Fuck Face
Try lying on your back, while he takes over the top position, and moves like he is making love to your mouth. Several pillows under your head help with this one. Also, you can place your hands on his penis or his ass to help control the speed and depth of his movements.
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Testicles
Yes, they exist. Yes, you should touch them. Yes, you should suck them. But, easy girls, these are very sensitive jewels. Handle with care. When in doubt, ask him how much pressure he likes. Many men say they enjoy their balls being licked, others like mouthing or sucking, while others like gentle tickles. Because both balls in your mouth at the same time could be too much, just try them one at a time. Ask him to shave them, or better yet, help him shave them, for a more enjoyable experience.
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Featured Move
The Ramon
Place your hands palms up towards the ceiling. Now, wiggle your fingers, keeping them straight. Now do this under his balls. This gives a nice tickle without groping to tightly.
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Not So Usual Areas
- Perinium
For those who don’t know what this area is, it is the smooth patch of skin between the testicles and the anus. There are nerves here that are attached to the penis, and many men like this area gently rubbed or licked or sucked. Cleanliness is key to enjoying going after this area.
- The Crevices
There are certain areas that don’t usually get too much attention, but you can change this. Try licking or caressing in the crevice where his thigh meets his genital area. Also, try massaging or sucking the area at the base of his penis where it meets the testicles.
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Lick the Alphabet
That’s right. Use your tongue to spell out every letter of the alphabet on and around his penis and privates. It gives you something to think about, and will drive him wild. You could also use the tip of your index finger to write the alphabet if you just can’t go there with your mouth.
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Penis
Now that you have paid some tender lusting care to all the other areas, he should be very excited, anticipating your mouth on his penis. Our experts agree that going about this should also have some expert handling. Some techniques worth mentioning:
Eyes
Yes, eyes. Look at him, and catch his eye while you are doing your “work”. Smile. Wink. Raise your eyebrows. Say, “Mmm, you taste so good.” He is watching, you know. Men notice bedroom eyes and it drives them wild.
Use your hands!
Many women think a blow job only involves the mouth, but the hands are an important part. Use your hands to jack him off while putting your mouth just on the head of his penis. You can let extra saliva drip out to use as lubrication for your hands. Some women think an uncircumsized penis is easier for this, because the extra foreskin makes it smoother for your hands to slide up and down. You can also use one hand to jack him off while the other hand explores his testicles or Not So Usual Areas.
Mouth
Be creative. Make swirlies on the tip of his head with your tongue, or pretend you are licking an ice cream cone. Try the alphabet trick. Hum with your mouth touching him, and this will give him a nice vibration sensation. Once you tease the tip for a while, you can insert the entire head in your mouth while continuing to tease it with your tongue. Suck it like you are sucking the top of a soft serve ice cream cone. Don’t forget to use those hands! Many women are not fans of putting the entire penis in their mouths, but if you are adventurous, give it a try. Make sure to tuck your lips over your teeth so they don’t scrape his cock. Biting is also bad form!
The entire idea is to make a tight, wet hole to put his
penis inside, to imitate a session of intercourse.
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Featured Move
The Harmonica
Lick and suck up and down the side of his penis, from the head to the base, without putting the entire organ in your mouth. Switch to the other side. This gives the feeling of your tongue on his cock without having to put it all the way in your mouth.
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Other things worth mentioning
Food
Some couples enjoy using food during a blow job. Suggestions include whipped cream, strawberries and champagne, and chocolate sauce. And if you like it, guacamole! Some people like to suck a penis with an ice cube in their mouth, or with a strong mint for an added tingly touch. Foods like honey or jelly can be sticky and messy, so try to stay away from those. Think about what you like to eat, and have at it!
Hummers
Proceed with caution! This is giving a blow job to a man while he is driving. Lean over the gear shift and have at it. Just make sure to watch out for tall vehicles, cops, and speed limit signs.
Practice
Getting good at anything takes practice. Don’t be discouraged or embarrassed if you don’t feel you are the world’s best at giving blow jobs. Take your time and try different moves. Watch an instructional video or porno website. And, most importantly, ask your partner what he likes. The whole idea is to blow his mind, isn’t it!